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    The Power Of Positive Thinking 

    August 5, 2022

    Tara Kong, MS, LPC-Associate Supervised by Melissa Barton, MA, LPC-S How can positive thinking impact your life? I once heard the phrase, “Change your thinking, change your life.” But is it that simple? Many people don’t realize the power of their thoughts. These thoughts can shape our lives by influencing our behavior in how we […]

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    The Power Of Positive Thinking 

    August 5, 2022
    child looking at a sign that says believe in yourself, The Power Of Positive Thinking blog, counseling center at cinco ranch, katy texas Tara Kong, MS, LPC-Associate
    Supervised by Melissa Barton, MA, LPC-S

    How can positive thinking impact your life? I once heard the phrase, “Change your thinking, change your life.” But is it that simple? Many people don’t realize the power of their thoughts. These thoughts can shape our lives by influencing our behavior in how we think. Positive thinking does not mean ignoring or avoiding difficult areas in life. Instead, it focuses on the positive, making the best of a challenging situation, and seeing others and yourself in a good light.  

    Why should we care about practicing positivity in our thought life? Will it make a difference in my life? Positive thinking has many benefits. These include better management of stress in one’s life, better coping skills in stressful situations, enhanced psychological health, better immunity to illness, better physical health, longer life, lower feelings of depression, and better cardiovascular health.  

    How to Practicing Positive Thinking in Your Own Life:

    1. Awareness

    It can be difficult at first to change your thoughts. Start aware of the ideas that run through your head each day. Do you think things such as I can do complex things? I may have made a mistake, but I tried my best and learned for next time. I am good enough. Or do you find your thoughts lean more towards beliefs like, I can’t believe I did that? I am so stupid. Why can’t I do anything right? If you have negative thoughts, stop your negative thought pattern and change those thoughts to more positive ones.  

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    2. Create a Gratitude Journal

    Try writing in a gratitude journal. It is easier to stay positive by being aware of the positives in your life. I encourage people to try and think of three things each day that they are thankful for. Experiencing grateful thoughts helps people feel more positively.  

    3. Practice Positive Thoughts

    Practice positive thoughts in the way you talk to yourself. Positive self-talk impacts how we view ourselves and allows us to handle stress better. Think of it as if you are talking to a good friend. Would you ever tell a friend they are so stupid? No! So don’t speak that way to yourself.  

    4. Balance Positive Thinking with Realistic Expectations

    kid with a cup that says see the good, The Power Of Positive Thinking blog, counseling center at cinco ranch, katy texas

    It is essential to balance positive thinking with realistic expectations. For example, someone may have dreams of being a famous YouTube star as they begin to post videos. If that person expects instant and high success, they will likely be very disappointed. Few people can make a living by posting videos; it takes time and effort. In some cases, people have taken positive thinking too far by refusing to change their mindset no matter how dire or upsetting the situation is. This kind of mindset leads to one not being able to be and experience authentic feelings and emotions. It also can put a lot of pressure on a person always to be happy, and they can experience shame or guilt if they are not always able to maintain a positive outlook. Bottom line: practice positive thinking with realistic expectations so you can be successful.  

    Begin Therapy in Katy, TX!

    If you are ready to take control of your thought patterns, one of the therapists at The Counseling Center at Cinco Ranch can help! We provide counseling and mental health services. To begin counseling in Katy, TX follow these three steps:

    • Contact our office to set up an appointment or to learn more about changing negative thought patterns.
    • Meet with one of our positive therapists.
    • Uncover ways to understand your thoughts and how they can affect your behavior and attitude.

    Other Therapy Services We Offer:

    Here at The Counseling Center at Cinco Ranch, we offer counseling services for people of all ages in areas including counseling for kids, counseling for young adults, teen counseling, couples counseling, eating disorder treatment, men’s issues, women’s issues, anxiety treatment, depression therapy, trauma counseling, family therapy, and group counseling. Our therapists strive to post blogs regularly. We provide helpful information on a variety of mental health topics. To learn more about our therapists and counseling services, please reach out to the Counseling Center today!

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    Depression Self Care: Two Things To Look For Each Day

    May 6, 2020

    By: Jessica Johns-Green, LPC Depression affects millions of people.  If you are struggling with depression, you are not alone.  It is estimated that over 17 million people in the US have had at least one major depressive episode https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/statistics/major-depression.shtml.  Depression is treatable with self care, medication, counseling or a combination of these.  Here’s a look […]

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    Depression Self Care: Two Things To Look For Each Day

    May 6, 2020
    By: Jessica Johns-Green, LPC

    Depression affects millions of people.  If you are struggling with depression, you are not alone.  It is estimated that over 17 million people in the US have had at least one major depressive episode https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/statistics/major-depression.shtml.  Depression is treatable with self care, medication, counseling or a combination of these.  Here’s a look at what depression is and two things to start doing that can help your healing.

    What is depression?

    Depression, also called major depressive disorder, is characterized by sadness, low mood and lack of interest in things.  But depression is not just being sad.  Depression is longer lasting and has a more profound effect on daily life.  Commonly, people struggling with depression express feelings of hopelessness.  Depression can affect your ability to work, maintain relationships and engage in self-care.   Some common characteristics of depression include:         depressed man in white shirt

    • feelings of worthlessness
    • crying spells
    • sleeping too much or not enough
    • changes in eating habits (eating too much or not enough)
    • fatigue
    • suicidal thoughts

    What causes depression?

    Depression is thought to be caused by a combination of things.  There may be biological factors – how systems in the physical body work – that make someone more prone to depression.  Social factors – our relationships, our family backgrounds and our place in the world around us – can trigger depression or make recovery from depression more difficult.  Our unique personalities – the psychological strengths and challenges we bring, such as how we typically think and how we respond to situations and challenges.  (Read more about depression, symptoms and treatment here https://www.psychiatry.org/patients-families/depression/what-is-depression).

    How is depression treated?  

    Depression can make you feel like it’s impossible to feel better.  It can make you feel like you are powerless to ever be any different than you feel now.  Depression treatment can include medication, therapy and self care.  The American Psychiatric Association estimates that 80% of people who seek treatment eventually feel better.  Although the recovery process may take months, it is worth it.  

    Counseling for depression will often begin with an inventory of your symptoms and a history of your experience with depression.  Although every person is different, depression therapy will usually highlight ways of thinking, general attitudes or even deep rooted beliefs that are widespread and common among depressed people.

    Depression seems to force us to think of things in an all-or-nothing way.  We can see no hope or good in things that once made us feel happy.  We see ourselves as worthless, useless, powerless.  While depressive thinking isn’t our ‘fault’, and you are not to blame if you notice your mind going that direction, there is often great benefit in challenging depressive thinking.  

    Depression Self Care: Look for two things everyday

    When depression grabs hold it can be difficult to see things in the way we do when we’re not depressed.  You can start working towards a better mood now by doing this simple task.

    Look for two things everyday:grateful man in red sweater practicing self care

    1. Achievement
    2. Gratitude

    To be most effective with this exercise, write down one achievement and something you feel grateful for. On a scale of 1-10 (with 1 being low) rate each one.  Rating it on a scale allows us to practice being less ‘all-or-nothing’ in our thinking.  Instead of thinking, ‘I didn’t do enough, it doesn’t count’, the rating system allows us to appreciate that some things deserve credit, even if they aren’t up to the same standard as when we are feeling well.

    Challenging yourself to find an achievement provides a basis to question the feelings of worthlessness and uselessness that fuel depression.  Looking for something to be grateful for doesn’t mean that we are ungrateful when suffering from depression.  But it does provide a tool to practice healthier styles of thinking by actively looking for something we possibly didn’t notice when depression is narrowing our attention.  

    Ready to try? 

    Here are 3 tips to help you get started

    Be patient and kind to yourself

    It’s a small task, it’s simple, but internally it’s almost like you are asking yourself to step outside of depression for a moment.  And that can be so tough.  Be ok to not do it well.  Don’t punish yourself for not doing it everyday.  it might feel like you don’t push yourself enough, and that if you were better you wouldn’t be having this problem.  But the truth is, criticizing yourself won’t help.

    Broaden your definitions

    What is your definition of an achievement?  On some days, depression means that just getting up to brush your teeth can be a big achievement.  On other days, you might do a lot, but not feel achievement.  Are there other things you’ve not noticed before?  Use the activity as a tool to break the cycle of depressive thinking.   

    Actively experiment and build on success

    When possible, add in activities, plans that could help encourage feelings of gratitude or achievement.  They don’t have to be big.  Take time for yourself in some way.  A moment to appreciate something in the world, even if it’s not perfect.

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    Depression is difficult, and even if this exercise isn’t for you, help is available.  Our skilled therapists will work with you to develop a treatment plan specifically for your needs.  If you think you have depression, seek help.  If you or someone you know is at risk of harming themselves or others, phone 911 immediately.  Here at the Counseling Center at Cinco Ranch, our therapists are ready to help.  Contact us to arrange a session with a licensed counselor or supervised intern. 

     

    Other Therapy Services We Offer

    Here at The Counseling Center at Cinco Ranch we offer depression treatment for adults, teens, and kids. We also offer counseling services in other areas including  anxiety treatment, trauma counseling, family therapy, counseling for kids, counseling for young adults, teen counseling, couples counseling, eating disorder treatment,  men’s issues, women’s issues and group counseling. Our therapists strive to regularly post blogs with helpful information on a variety of mental health topics. To learn more about our therapists and our counseling services, please reach out to the Counseling Center today!

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